If there is only one flower in a garden full of weeds, that is the one to see. Likewise, all of you try with one of your brothers or sisters, focus on one of the positive aspects of their personality. Don't bring them down further by making them always see what is wrong with them. You would be committing a wrong deed.

Study yourselves very seriously. This is difficult to achieve, but it brings you satisfaction and is beneficial for them.

Be assured that this method bears fruit. Human beings are perfectible. This is all they are actually yearning for, deep down. They hate themselves in the role of the bad guy.

Being considered as such drives them deeper into their problem.

In this area, parents also have a role to play, and an important one.

How many children retain a lifelong complex for having been mocked, misunderstood, and punished for a flaw that may have been corrected with a little understanding and discernment. The parent-child relationship generates persistent karma.

If you experienced similar situations in your childhood, you understand.

You must absolutely free yourselves from them and not harbour any resentment, any bad thoughts, for your own well-being.

You are or may become parents yourselves. The task is not easy, it is a harsh lesson that has to be learned.

Fortunate are those who come through well.

Nothing is simple in this world. Always try to do your level best, in accordance with your conscience.

The lives of human beings are influenced by their childhood. Failing to understand, one has to love – it is the only remedy.

Babuji