What you note within the group is the reflection of human behaviour in general. The abhyasis are no exception to the rule.

"Situations must evolve from difficult to good, and protagonists must acquire a wisdom, which they lack particularly. They cannot give what they do not have. While believing they act for the good, they make errors. They will be replaced and other problems will emerge; there is no end to this problem. We note the facts, we rectify what can be rectified and we let our candidates mature.

"These organizational and administrative problems should not discourage our brothers and sisters; our method is not at issue. Practising abhyasis are not perfect, and one should be so lucky for that. Therefore it is necessary to put up with certain behaviours that we deplore. They are not, alas, specific to this ashram. You must make progress in spite of everything. Take the good that comes along, and ignore whatever you dislike in others' doings. We cannot settle everything, nor can we purify everything with a wave of a magic wand. One should not necessarily give up. We work towards ironing out these problems, which are inherent in all human groupings. Try to set an example of tolerance and acceptance; you will help us."

Babuji

--First Selection (Messages referring to the Master, Mission and method of Sahaj Marg)